Friday, 20 March 2015


                                   


Life is strange, and so are its ways of unfolding things. Many a times we imagine things to be picture perfect. At times we do succeed in living a happy and content life, but is that worth lasting? 

Similarly another complication in one's life can be , that lovely fairy tale of falling in love with a perfect soul mate. True Love is such a big Myth that the media has been misleading us to. Yes, there  still exists tales of several people successful and happy with their love affairs and their courtship after marriage, but many people are not as fortunate as them. In a country like India, we are proud to have people of various backgrounds, speaking different languages, belonging to different religions. Of course we believe in 'Unity in Diversity', don't we?? (chuckles!!)..

We come across varied mentalities of people and their personal comments about Love, its so disheartening to understand that love is not how we perceive and it is majorly decided upon what the SOCIETY thinks about it. So many restrictions pop up from nowhere. Be it your own family, relatives or friends, majorly your neighbors who get food for thought and disrupt your smooth relationship. To break this vicious circle of unrest, one needs to overcome comments and strange looks by people and embark on this big decision to get married.

In the long run parents agree to it but, still regret about their son/ daughter not taking their opinion before loving. We spend all our life satisfying their wishes of, studying well, getting into a good college, earning a good living ... but what about choosing a Life Partner of our interests. After marriage , troubles don't fade away easily. Any small mistake is counted so largely almost blaming and crushing us under their feet. The True Love then among the couple shatters to just a complaining relationship. Both unsatisfied with their life's decisions.

Let this not happen to everyone. Let us all be welcoming in all our thoughts. Let us be receiving things positively. Let us be the change and change the world. Of course telling is easy, one has to move on after whatever he/she has gone through but not impossible. Let the true love bloom in your relationship day by day and year after year... learn to forgive and forget. !!!. Have faith in your partner and love him/her immensely as you did before. Help someone who is facing the same consequences as you. Keep smiling.... :)

P.S.: A completely imaginary and personal thought. 

7 comments:

  1. Very true. We should respect each other uncondionally.

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  2. Very true. We should respect each other uncondionally.

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  3. True...
    Society should not decide our destiny

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  4. Every one should respect others emotions

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  5. Every one should respect others emotions

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  6. Yup. Communication is the key to familial/marital discord. Whatever happens, whether it be due to society or kinsmen, one should talk it out.

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  7. It is very important to understand and support each individual's decision. You shouldn't do what you love but instead love what you do. No one else can bring you happiness except you yourself.

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